Thursday 2 May 2013

Why is it difficult to forgive?

Mpho Olifant


Why is difficult to forgive your fellow brothers and sisters? Why have you hardened your heart? Yes they might have hurt you and caused you excruciating pain but you must learn to forgive.

Genesis 37:11 gives an insight about how much Josephs brothers hated him because he was their fathers favourite, they conspired to murder him but ended up selling him. He spent most of his entire life in Egypt and grew up without his father who adored him so much and his brothers but at the end, he took care of the very same brothers who had plotted to assassinate him, helped them and forgave them!!

Was it easy for him? No, but because he loved and served an omnipotent God, he forgave his brothers and after forgiving them, his was re-united with his father and brothers and able to move on happily.

How many times have you asked God for forgiveness? How many times did God forgive you and help you? Why can’t you do the same to those who have hurt you? Especially in tough times. No matter how hard  it is, learn to be forgiveful and I assure you, you will be  ecstatic, have joy, be able to forgive those who come to you and begs for your forgives, regardless of what they did to you, don’t keep quiet, just forgive them without any mention of the past.

Let God deal with every situation, whatever what might have happened belongs in the past and let God deal with it. Kneel down and pray, tell God that you forgive all those who have hurt you and ask God to forgive them also. We are all created by God Almighty; God knows what to do, never judge those who hurt you, let God deal with them and forgive them.

The God of our fathers Abraham, Joseph and Moses has seen our misery, let’s bow down bringing him honour and praise. The minute you forgive, you do not think or perceive them as foes anymore but your heart will be at peace.

How can you love God when you are not able to forgive because God forgives and is love? Do not hold grudges, do not resent or hate, let go, just let go of all the hate causing you not to forgive, do not point fingers but give all to God.

1 John 3:15 “whosoever hateth his brother is a murderer and you know that no murderer hath eternal life abiding in him” (KJV)

By Mpho Oliphant
Edited, Arranged and Compiled by Teboho Masakala

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