Never hurt the one you love ©
by Teboho Masakala
Often we make terrible mistakes that ends up hurting the
most people we care about. At the time of the mistakes we do. We are blinded
and don’t see anything wrong. We enjoy the temporary feeling of triumph during
the mistake not evening thinking about the “Every Dog has its day” phrase as by
that time it ends up not existing as the temporarily feeling of stupidity
clouds our judgment.
However it is not wise to hurt the one you love or people
you hold dearly in your heart. Once they are hurt the is not return. Some might
leave you and the stupid caused by the weak moment can cause you a life time
headache and heart break.
Don’t ever try do something thinking it will remain
concealed forever as nothing remains hidden under the sun like the bible say.
Some allow friends to dictate them. They lower their standard to satisfy their
friends and make them see themselves superior at the time as they don’t want to
be seen as weak by their so called friends and as such they end up making
stupid mistakes that hurt their loved one.
What is sad the most when the very same people are forever
rejected and out-casted by their loved ones and friends are nowhere to be seen.
The very same friends who pressurized them make costly mistakes are on the run
and even complain that “no one can force a person a grown up man/woman” to do
something they don’t want to do. Forgetting that their influence played a role
in getting you rejected by your loved ones and ending up hurting them.
Time to decide what’s important in your life and stop taking
what’s dear to your heart for granted. Time for some self-introspection and to
see if is it really worth it to hurt the one you love?. The one who really was
there for you when no one was? That very same person who is willing to throw
themselves under the bus for you? The very same people who is called names and
rejected by many. Who tries by all means to make you happy and always see you
happy.
The very people who is not ashamed to be seen with you and
show the word how proud they are to be with you and let their love for you to
be seen by the whole world and to let them know how much you mean to them?
Never hurt the one you love or you will end up regretting
for the rest of your life. Once you hurt the one you love. The is no return as
you may never know how they will reach. Show that you value the one who love
you. Show them how much they mean to you and let every second that passes worth
all it is to them. Show them that every minute counts and how you want to spent
those minutes with them.
Don’t wait till it is very late. You don’t not know how much
time you are left with to show them your genuine love. Don’t wait for hot tears
to come down your cheeks to really see what you have lost. Never hurt the one
you love. Cherish every moment you have with them. Cut all ties with all that
seems as a threat to them. Even if it can be your best friends let them go,
friends come and go. Don’t let them destroy the beautiful thing you have. Let
love reign in your heart for the one you love. No one can triumph over the
power of love but love always wins. Never hurt the one you love
By Teboho Masakala©
Copyright Teboho Masakala
Photo Credits: Teboho Masakala
