Wednesday 30 January 2019

You are Unique. Love yourself






By Teboho Masakala




The will never be another you. The will never be someone created in your image, character or behaviour. God created you unique and made you to be different and you don’t need people to make you feel complete or loved.

You don’t need to unnecessarily stress yourself about what people say about you. Your body shape, shoe size or anything about you is unique and you don’t need people’s stamp of approval about yourself. You need to love yourself the way you are and be proud of yourself.


God created every individual unique for a reason. He created our body shapes differently for a reason and nothing said or done will change that. Some people feel so much offended by the curses that comes from the lips of the immature they take it seriously forgetting that people are not creators but only God is.


Never change anything about yourself. If people claim to love you they need to love you the way you are, you don’t need to jump over a mountain to make people happy. Don’t allow people make you miserable because of the way God created you, never allow people to belittle you.

Don’t lose sleep over words that mean nothing. Curses become active when you give them time and space but if you ignore them they vanish. They mean nothing so you don’t need to care about what people say about you.

Your environment or background doesn’t determine your destiny so are people’s words but its only you who determines your own destiny. Stop buying love and friendship just because you want to fit in while inside you end up being miserable. You need to first love yourself, love the way you were created as you are made in the image of God and nothing said by people shall erase that.

You were not a mistake when God created you. Every body part in you carved by God is a blessing and has a purpose so don’t let the media, celebrities, fame, pressure or anyone define your beauty or who you are. You are unique and beautiful. True beauty lies within and is not determined by the appearance.

The are many handsome and beautiful people yet their hearts are as hard as a stone. The are beautiful women yet their hearts harbour evil and greed. Never let people decide who you can be and cannot be because you are a child of God and he loves you.


Appreciate your uniqueness in spite of everything, disabled or not, rich or not it doesn’t matter. We are all created in the image of the Almighty God who appreciates our uniqueness and loves us as we are. You are Unique. Love yourself.

My mentor and inspiration Mrs Dee once said to me “If you don’t love yourself no one will”
Love yourself because indeed if you don’t no one will do that for you.
Copyright: Teboho Masakala

2 comments:

  1. Profound piece indeed! That is true my brother, start by loving yourself first so that u can be able to give love. Remember u can't give something that u don't have!

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